No more bullying

The gap between Budget Week 2019 and upcoming estimates offered opportunity to grab a

moment with loved ones, and take time to look at what is transpiring, what is inspiring, and what is

‘aspiring’ at the ‘mid-year’ mark.

Putting together estimate questions may not sound that inspiring, however from a location that has

recovered from the horrors of the Boxing Day 2004 tsunami, and an aftermath including deep

economic, social and environmental wounds, it is. People smile and are grateful for the smallest of

offerings and kind words here, however you can feel their loss, sorrow and sadness buried deep.

Surprisingly, they have not held onto bitterness, hatred or seek retribution for what happened that

day. They tell me they have moved on and will not be defined by the tragedy, which could be

classified as an extreme weather event, attributable to climate change, the Lords wrath, an

incompetent Government/Department, or a number of other ‘blames’?

Instead their healing comes from not labelling the ‘who, what and why’, nor seeking an apology or

defining the reason. It comes from acceptance….this time of Mother Nature, on one side

insurmountably beautiful and grounding, on the other a force with angry outbursts and tendency to

violence. Resilience, belief and the concentration on repairing and rebuilding has been key. We

could learn much from this.

In the ‘transpiring’ realm, after previously seeing great improvements in behaviour on Facebook,

there has been a decline with a number of posts attacking our local Council, Councillors, not for

profit organisations and individuals, often without their being made aware by a lack of ‘tagging’. The

reason? They don’t want a response, question answered or a discussion, they want to spread

misinformation and hurt. A plethora of offerings and accusations has prevailed, and from comments

in response sadly some Facebookers are subscribing to this form of bullying and abuse – which is

what it is. Remember, if it looks like, sounds like and smells like ‘bait’, on Facebook or in newspaper

headlines, it often is.

There are processes for legitimate complaints and concerns, and to denigrate people, organisations

or businesses in a public manner, often without their knowledge, is not acceptable. Readers please

alert your friends that to ‘like’ or agree to these offerings is supporting bullying and encourages

outrage instead of discussion to resolve. Help create the future we are fighting for by clearly

articulating and using processes to deal with any wrong doings, and ask any potential candidates

(yes there is a local government election around the corner), to state their offer and how they will

do it, without resorting to dragging down the opposition.

Even though as a State MP I am to stay out of Council business – I have made it clear in every

election that I am determined to see an end to the disgraceful behaviour and bullying in our

communities and at all levels of government – not only during campaigns, but also in Parliament and

on the streets. Yes, that is the ‘aspirational’ part of the ‘inspire and transpire’ equation. So please

give anyone you know who has been involved in these shenanigans the heads up- and a few

hashtags? #enoughisenough #nomore

In summary – ‘click bait’ on social media creating conundrum chews into valuable resources without

any results, and can be ‘smoke and mirrors’ with political and other agendas. We need to spend our

time tackling our real issues, and we have plenty of those – health, violence, homelessness and jobs

to name but a few.

As I said in my Budget Reply speech – it is time to stop ‘politicking’, forget about getting elected or

re-elected, and just put the wellbeing of our communities and their future first.

And for anyone who is serious about helping out, as an Ambassador for the Vinnie’s Corporate &

Community Sleepout, I welcome you to join me with your swag on Aug 8, or if not, donate any small

amount via www.communitysleepout.org.au you will find me in the Sunshine Coast section.

Yes it will be chilly, but the soup hot, and the discussion very important.

Until next time, Sandy